Take charge of the situation and contain this persons anger.
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All communication is directed to your defuser.com inbox. The process from there is simple and effective.
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Email is the ideal method of communication with this person. It creates a record of events, requests, undertakings and planned actions. It is the obvious line of communication to keep open with someone you need to communicate with but would prefer to separate from your personal life. The person sending the messages needs to know their abuse is not getting to you and that their bad behavior is being scrutinised.
The insideous nature of unchecked contact allows the emotionally unsettled sender to plan and deploy their message. They intentionally insert content that will be upsetting for you to read. You may be receiving emails or txt defending the senders position, distorting the accurate perspective of events in a bid to play havoc with your mental state. Abusive communication is often creative, allowing whatever current delusion that has incubated in the senders mind to be used to distort the actual truth. Emails can be demeaning in an effort to undermine your self confidence as you move-on in the world without their support. More than likely the abuse is repetitive in theme. These are all tactics used to destroy your resolve. Don't let them do this to you.
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Remember, the sad fact is that the sender may later regret their actions. Allowing this negative behavior to continue is damaging for everyone involved. Establishing a rational tone will assist you through the process of separating your lives. While you may be tempted to put up a fight on their terms, doing so will limit your ability to move forward and most likely cost you a lot of money. And of course we all understand, children (if involved) are the ones who suffer the most from drawn out animosity between parents.
Your chosen Defuser will deal only with the structure of the email in a way that defuses the senders anger and corrects their behavior.
Do not let this person treat you as an outlet for their frustrations. Apply our simple program, you will be empowered by the results.Recommend to a friend